Who am I? A wife for almost 40 years. A mom for over 36 years. A sister and a friend, of course. Each of these help describe me. But, even more, I have been a Christian since accepting Him as my Savior when I was 12 years old and, this truth defines each area of my life. I have enjoyed some mountain top experiences but have been through some very deep valleys as well. Valleys of incredible grief and even pits of depression. However, most of my days are ordinary, routine kind of days. But in every one of my days, God has been faithful. He has walked with me whatever the day. He strengthens, comforts, encourages and blesses me with life "most abundant."

A favorite life verse: The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. John 10:10

Why do I write? Though not quite as private as my dad, I am definitely my father's daughter. I find it difficult to share. And to let others in. But I do love to write. I love to put words into sentences and sentences in paragraphs that help express my thoughts. I hope my words help me share my heart. Share the life that God has given me and all that He has done for me and through me. I write with the hope of giving Him at least a bit of the glory He is due.

A verse to guide my writing: That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ. I Peter 1:7

Saying Good-bye

Posted on By jennifer

 

Last week, we said goodbye to our sweetest pup, Bailey.  You have to be a dog lover – and especially a dog mom (or a dog Mimi) to really appreciate the emotion attached to that goodbye.  Truthfully, I do not consider myself a “dog person” and I am actually afraid – at the least, quite intimidated – by dogs.  But, my goodness, Miss Bailey wrapped herself around my heart…just as she did just about everyone.  The story of how Bailey joined our family is a bit complicated and twisted – and not all the details are mine to share.  But (truthfully) it was through a “friend of a friend.”  Someone came to his work and asked him to take this puppy but he already had two pit bulls.  And lived in an apartment.  He just could not take a third dog and he turned her down.  However, when he got off work, there she was – tied to the bumper of his truck!!:(  So pitiful.  Of course, he brought her home but could not keep her.  And, well, long story short – that sweet discarded puppy finally landed with our daughter….and became a princess!!
Boy, oh boy, could that pup ever get into some trouble!  She was the naughtiest one…but loved beyond measure and ever indiscretion somehow overlooked and eventually forgotten.  She brought so much joy to our home.  She has been my daughter’s world for the last 14 (and a bit more….we are not sure) years!  Has helped her through really hard days and was the epitome of a faithful companion!  She was treated for cancer – not once, or twice but three times.  Even had one toe removed but always bounced back like a puppy!  This last time, the cancer was just too swift.  Thankfully, she was only “sick” for about two weeks.  Oh, but such a hard two weeks.  We are so thankful for such compassionate and caring doctors and technicians who were available at all hours to help my daughter.  To give medical help and advice and, especially, to simply listen.  They really were so kind and comforting.
Every dog owner knows what joy pups bring to our lives.  Bailey was no exception.  Just so much joy!  And no a big hole….but we are so grateful for all the joy.  All the treats.  All the walks.  All the sloppery messes.  And all the love!

 

 

 

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Comments (15)

  1. you paint a beautiful picture of bailey, you always have , bailey was very blessed to have you all as her family…so sorry for all your heartache . . .

  2. Oh Jennifer I am so sorry to hear you said good-bye to your precious pup, Bailey! She was adorable! I am a hopeless dog lover. I said good-bye to my dear Golda 3 years ago, and I still miss her desperately every day. I have not gotten another dog because I don’t want to feel that pain again, yet I do miss having one.
    May the beautiful memories of Bailey continue to bring joy to your heart, especially on the hard days.

    1. Thanks, Donna. I really appreciate your understanding and kind comment. Always blessed when you stop by!

  4. Always such a sad thing to have to say goodbye to a furry member of our family. Bailey sounded like a great member of your family too! They leave such a deep hole in our hearts when they are no longer there. We lost our first corgi to cancer 12/23/2014 after he had been in a 4 year remission. To this day I still cry when I think about him. Bailey left behind a wonderful legacy of love to those who were fortunate to have her in their lives.

    betty

    1. Oh Betty – you know much of how we feel! Thanks for your sweet comment!!

  5. Jennifer, I feel so bad you had to say goodbye to Bailey. Such a sweet little pup. I have a beagle named Little Girl, she has epilepsy and has to take medication daily. We take care of each other. Thank you for sharing your heart with us today. Blessings.

    1. “We take care of each other” – oh, you are so right!! Glad that you stopped by, Paula, and thank you for your comment!

  6. A sweet tribute to a loving friend and companion- Your family gave him a good life and it sounds like he gave a lot of love in return. I hope that despite the loss of Bailey you are having a wonderful 4th of July weekend.

    1. Thanks, Maria! I’m glad you stopped by today…and hope your holiday weekend is a good one!!

  7. Oh my goodness, I am so sorry to hear this news. They add so much joy to our lives and it hurts so much to say goodbye. It sounds like your family have given him the best life in the years that he was with you, and he loved you all just as much as you loved him. Sending hugs across the ocean to you x

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