I have to admit that I surprised even myself. With a photo challenge. Not the challenge part exactly, as I am usually up for a challenge. But with the photo part of this challenge. Taking pictures is not exactly my thing (which is honestly what made it a challenge for me) but, nevertheless, a couple of months ago I decided to join some ladies over at This West London Life for a Photo Hunt. For the last few months, we have been working our way through fifteen different prompts. Looking for photo opportunities. I posted my first two here and here. Today, I have the final photos. My photography skills certainly have not improved one bit but I will admit, I have had fun looking for chances and places to take these pictures.
I will say, upfront, some of these photos are a bit…well, different. A couple of weeks ago, I spent the morning at the cemetery. It was Tyler’s birthday. As expected, I was bit melancholy but the cemetery is, quite often, very calming to me. I felt encouraged…even a bit inspired. But pensive all at the same. It is an odd feeling and hard to explain, but it does explain a couple of my photos. Hopefully. I suppose with a photo challenge there are no correct or incorrect photos. Let’s just push on – or crack on as my friends at This West London Life might say:)
mark the passing of time –
I was so intriqued with this urn of flowers at the cemetery. I stared at them for the longest of time. How long had it been since they were placed there? Would anyone return to remove and/or replace them? Where were the loved ones – far away? close by? – and what might be prolonging their coming? Beautiful flowers but now (seemingly) forgotten. I suppose time does that in so many ways and, yes, there are days my mama’s heart worries that my sweet buddy is not well remembered by many but, that morning, I was encouraged to still be there. Still able to visit. I know not everyone has that ability. Truthfully, my thoughts went down quite a few rabbit trails that morning – all from an urn of brown and withered flowers. And so, I included the picture today.
something that casts a shadow –
Don’t tune me out completely just yet. I’m not trying to be too deep but I also took this photo while at the cemetery that morning. We planted this tree the year after Tyler died. It was just a few twigs of a thing and, although it gave pretty flowers, it really provided no relief from the sun when I would visit. And I visited often in those first months. But look at it now! It has weathered storms and withstood time and now gives shade to such a large space. I was comforted and, again, encouraged. I hope I have weathered storms and continued to grow and bloom in a way that will be a blessing to those around me. Just a thought. (And no more inspiration from a cemetery.)
moving water –
One night, shortly before I went to Panama, we had a terrible thunderstorm. The lightning. The thunder. The torrential rain that beat against the house. I awoke thinking we were surely going to be blown away. The next morning, the calm had returned. No wind. No rain. But there was alot of water to run off. One of the creeks that I pass while walking was full to overflowing. This isn’t the best photo to really show how the water was rushing…but I climbed over a gaurd rail and down and wet, slippery grass in order to take it…so this photo remains!
a favorite summer food –
So, let’s end this post with a smile. A huge ice cream smile. Nothing says summer like ice cream. And when it is hot (like Panama hot!), a cold ice cream sundae is even sweeter!! I have to confess a friend took this photo. The one I took did not nearly capture the glee. I just want to end with a smile. And ice cream. I am going to miss ice cream! Thanks for reading along. And thanks, Ruth, for the photo hunt and the link-up!!
Enjoyed reading this, seeing your photos and reading your reflections. I can see how you could be comforted by seeing the growth in the tree that you planted in honor of your son. And I am very impressed with your traipsing around boundaries to get a photo! Nice commitment, follow through and photo!!
Thank you for sharing these photos and especially the ones of the tree and the forgotten urn of flowers. Very thought provoking with the tree and hasn’t it grown into a beautiful plant.
The ice cream smile is the best!
You not only took good pictures, but the comments with each one are great! I often equate symbolic thoughts to my pictures, too. You did great, Jennifer!
Jennifer, I so appreciated the way you included pictures from your time at the cemetery on Tyler’s birthday, as well as your thoughts…especially about the flowers. And how wonderful that the tree that you planted at his gravesite has done so well.
Loved the ice cream smile at the end!
The 2024 SPSH was certainly a way to get us to look at the world around us & notice things 🙂 Your son’s tree is doing well & how lovely that you can visit & remember. 🙂
Proud of you to have stepped outside your comfort zone to take more photos. Coincidentally, I have about 3 photos for the challenge from a cemetery, too. I think you should write a story about that first photo with the faded, forgotten flowers. The questions you posed are so thought provoking. Have you done much creative writing?
That is certainly an expression of joy on the face of the lucky fella holding that ice cream cone. We usually have ice cream once a week or every 10 days. It has become my favorite sweet treat.
The photo of the dried-up flowers is a great one to show the passage of time, and how interesting to ponder the questions raised, and think about the person that placed the flowers at a loved one’s grave marker.
Love the smile with that ice cream! Captures how I feel about ice cream!